How to increase self confidence and self esteem in children

Hello friends, I once again warmly welcome and welcome all of you. Today I present very important and useful information in this article. The topic of today's article is " How to Improve Self-Confidence and self  -esteem in Children ", This question comes in the mind of all the parents of the world that in good parenting and child care how do we increase self-confidence and self-esteem in our children?  What are some tips to increase/ develop /improve self confidence and self esteem in your children ?  Tips for increase/develop/improve Self Confidence and Self Esteem in Children?I have brought answers to these questions of all parents in this article of mine. I provide some important and useful ways by which we can increase the sense of self-confidence and self-esteem in our children.This important and useful information is   Not only for parents living in the country but also for all parents who also live abroad like United States of America, Philippines, Colombia, Russia, Singapore, England etc.  I hope that the important information presented by me will be useful and beneficial for you.

Children don't learn what you say, they learn what you do. For most parents, parenting simply means providing for their children's food, clothing, and daily needs.  In this way they are freed from their responsibilities but are they able to inculcate good habits and values ​​in their children so that they can become self confidence, self esteem self-reliant and responsible.  Often parents are worried about how we should raise our children, so we tell you some ways which will help you and will prove useful in raising children.

In the early years of child

development,90% of the brain of any human begins to develop by the age of 5.  Therefore, in the early years of child development, if all parents try to develop self-confidence in their children, then it will be very beneficial.Usually 90% of the human brain is developed in the early years (by the age of five).If you are attentive and always there for your child, it instills a kind of confidence in your child.  They feel safe, and whenever they cry, they feel that someone is there to take care of them.  He will start developing the quality of self-confidence in him from childhood.  Over time, children learn different types of habits as they grow up.  Some develop new skills, like playing different types of games, making new friends, learning different skills like music, art, painting, etc.  When any child starts feeling capable of doing something new, then a sense of self-confidence starts developing automatically, as a result of which the sense of self-esteem increases in the children and they are able to handle different types of things simultaneously.  enables.  That is why it is very important and important to develop self-confidence in children from childhood itself.

 How to Improve Self-Confidence and self-esteem in Children

  In the article presented by me, we have told you that child development is the initial period of children which is up to the age of 5 years.  It is necessary for every parent to develop the confidence in the hand in the children at the same age.  But now the question arises that How to increase self confidence and self esteem in children?. how do we develop self-confidence and self-esteem in our children which strategy should we make or what methods should be adopted by which our children can develop a sense of self-confidence, so I suggest you to develop a sense of self-confidence in your children.  Following are the important and useful methods.  Please, I request all of you readers and all parents to adopt these methods to develop a sense of self-confidence in your children.

 1. Give Children Unselfish Love

  Every parent love your children selfless always tell the children that you love them immensely and in any situation their love will not diminish here status means success and failure.  Must tell the children that their love will never diminish whether they succeed or fail in doing any work.  His love never diminishes and his parents will always stand by him.

 2. Praise Children

 What is meant by praising children, what are the benefits of this Let us discuss this.  You must know that any child is always very proud of himself.  And if any person praises them, then they feel very proud of themselves and start trying something new. So all the parents should praise the children whenever their child does some positive work.  It must be praised, which boosts their morale and they move forward to learn something new.  Praising the children gives the result that the child gets the motivation to learn something new and is motivated to do any new work in the future.

 3.  Give responsibility to children to do any task or work

 Every parent should give small responsibilities to their children, as a result of which the children will learn to do their own work like cleaning their play toys, putting them in a tidy place after playing, keeping the school bag tidy, reading  After that, keeping books organized, small household tasks etc.  When children are given a task to do, they are very happy and a new energy is generated in them to do that work.  And he will try to do that work successfully.

 4.  let the kids try themselves

 Every parent should let their children try themselves to do any work. Let the children try themselves to do any work so that they can become self-sufficient. Every day parents do everything for their children in advance.  Do not provide something ready-made or pre-prepared, but let the children try themselves.  For example, let them prepare themselves for school, organize their school bags themselves, let them make their own breakfast, etc.  When children do these things themselves, they will develop confidence in themselves to do the work.  Once children become accustomed to doing a task on their own, they may feel very capable of teaching others, and children will gain confidence.

 5.  be a role model

 All parents of children should know that children always learn from others.  They learn by observing others, by observing the behavior, habits and actions of others and learn from them.  As you know, the first school of a child is their home.  Therefore, when children see the behavior, habits and actions of the family members at their home and they see the behavior, habits and actions done by the family members, then they learn and get inspired by following those behaviours, habits and actions.  When the children in this way start following the behavior habits and actions done by the family members, then they make the family members a role model for themselves.  That's why every parent should know that the way you behave, habit and act in front of children, the child will learn from you because they start considering their parents as their role models.  All parents should do good behavior in front of their children, good habits and good deeds so that their child follows positively.be able to do.

 6. Don't Over-praise

 Every parent should know that never over-praise your children because over-praising is harmful, only praise the children for the successful work done by them.  The sense of over confidence begins to develop and children start living in the comfort zone, as a result of which children do not even try to do any work.

 7. Practice makes man perfect

 As you all know that the essence of life says that both success and failure have to be seen in a man's life and success is behind success.  Keep them ready to do any work in any field whether that work is successful or unsuccessful but it is very important to keep them ready or develop a feeling in the children that practice makes a man perfect to do any work.  And only by practicing, success is achieved, also explained to the children that if success is being achieved again and again, then you should practice again and again, by practicing again and again, you will definitely get success.  Makes them develop the ability to follow and observe this saying in them, explain to them that by practicing again and again, repeating again and again, they will get success and will help in the life of children in future.  Father should always be the teacher of his children as you know that child  Their parents are the first gurus, so it is your duty to help them in doing their work.

 8.  Let the kids make their own choices or dislikes

 The most important and powerful component of increasing the sense of self-confidence in children is the ability to choose or make choices.  Or let the dislikes choose themselves, for example what to wear according to the season, what to eat, let the children choose what they like

  Every parent should give responsibility to their children to choose their own likes or dislikes, as a result of which the children will develop the ability to make their own decisions, which will develop a sense of confidence in children.

 9. Help fulfill the dreams of children

 It is the duty of every parent to support their children in fulfilling their dreams. If your child's dream is to be a doctor, pilot, lawyer, engineer, writer, dancer, singer, etc.  Let him fulfill his dreams and support and support him to fulfill his dreams.  Because when parents trust and support their children to fulfill their dreams, responsibility and self-confidence develop in the children and they perform their best.  Support them that you are with them in every situation, be it success or failure.  In this way, you can develop the qualities of self-confidence in children.

 10.  Encourage positive actions and punish for negative actions

 Every parent should know that whenever their child does some positive work, it is the duty of the parent to encourage them for the work done by their child and give them a gift as an encouragement so that the child gets inside.  An energy is invoked and a sense of self-confidence is developed in the children.

  When a child does a negative act which he should not do, it is the responsibility of every parent to punish him against the negative act done by the child because if the children will not get the cold then he will be liable to do the negative act.  Will continue to be motivated, so also explain the consequences of negative actions to children, make them aware of the consequences of negative actions, what will be the harm to them, what will be the effect on their future, what will be the effect on their behavior, keep all these things in front of them so that the child is aware of the consequences of negative actions  to be able

11.  assign tasks or tasks to children according to their age or age

 It should be the duty of every parent that whenever the children are given responsibilities to do any work or work.children according to their age or age Give responsibilities, e.g. filling water bottles, taking care of your younger siblings, cleaning the sofa bed, cleaning etc., etc.  This will develop a sense of responsibility and self-confidence in children.

 12.  Give children the freedom to make new friends

 It is the duty of every parent to provide complete freedom or independence to their children to make new friends usually when a child feels very comfortable talking to someone new or to children of his age.  If it expresses the desire to be friends, then they feel a kind of energy and confidence within themselves.  In such a situation, they can face anyone and develop a sense of understanding for people, which is very necessary.  So, give them complete freedom or freedom to make friends and build their confidence.

 13.  Never compare your child with other children

 In the present time every parent should know that he should never compare his children with any other children because you should know that every child has some special abilities and abilities, so do not compare.  If one can dance well, the other can sing well.  Your child may not be good in studies but perfect in other things or activities, so don't compare your kids with other kids.  Comparison hurts a lot and can hurt their self-esteem as well.  Children may feel hopeless and demoralize them, which is not good for them.

 14. Provide freedom or independence as required

 In the present time, it is the duty of every parent to provide freedom or independence to their children according to the condition of the time and as per the requirement.  Parents do not need to be around children all the time all the time, parents should only make the children feel that they are always with them in every situation, keep your faith in the children, do not stop them from going anywhere and  Give complete freedom or freedom to do any work Giving freedom to complete freedom does not mean that you should be completely careless, you should keep an eye on the children whether they are using their freedom incorrectly.  Through this they try to do new tasks they will not be afraid to do them because they sense your presence and once they get used to it can make a huge difference in their behavior and confidence.

 15. Goal Setting

 It is the duty of every parent to develop their child's ability to make any goal. Clearing any big and small goals and achieving them makes children feel strong.  Then, practice breaking down long-term goals into realistic benchmarks.  You will validate their interests and help them learn the skills they need to achieve their goals throughout their lives.

 16. Encourage them to try and try new problems

 It is the duty of every parent to encourage their children to try new things.

 Instead of focusing all of their energy on what they already excel at, it's good for kids to diversify.  Acquiring new skills makes children feel capable and confident that they can tackle every problem that comes their way.

 17. Make children practice yoga.

 It is the duty and responsibility of every parent to make their children practice yoga daily or motivate them to do yoga. Yoga practice keeps children healthy mind, healthy body and along with learning self-love-  Also helps to practice mindfulness and reflection.  Exercise can also increase endorphins, and provide a sense of happiness and well-being.

18, spend more time with children

 It is the duty of every parent to spend as much time as possible with their children.  To increase the confidence in the children, parents should spend more and more time with them.  Be a partner in the child's small activities.  This will not only make you understand the child better, but will also start seeing things from his point of view.

19. trust children's abilities

 It is also the duty of the parents that they should have confidence in the abilities of their children.  Parents should also know what their child is capable of doing and which tasks they are not capable of.  If the child is unable to do a task, it means that the child.The child does not have the ability to do that, so he could not do that work.  In such a situation, every parent has to understand that if a child is not able to show his ability to do a task, then advise that child to do that task again and again and tell him if he does this task again and again.  If he does it once, then one day he will definitely get success.  By doing this, the quality of self-esteem and self-confidence develops in the mind of the children.

 

 20. Don't allow kids to do too much

 In the present time it has been seen that nowadays children have started doing a lot of their own free will.  They don't listen to their parents.  The result of which is that negative thinking and negative behavior starts to arise in the children.  Due to which the quality of self-confidence starts to end in them. Therefore, it is the duty of every parent not to allow children to do more and more at will to develop the qualities of self-confidence and self-respect in the children.

 21. Always focus on the strengths of the children instead of counting their weaknesses.

It is the duty of every parent to focus on the strengths of their children instead of counting their weaknesses.  The result is that the children's hesitation starts to arise and their morale starts falling, which results in the lack of self-esteem and self-confidence in the children.  Support them to overcome them, motivate them, due to which their self-esteem and soul will develop.

22. Teach children to adapt to situations

  It is the duty and responsibility of every parent to teach their children to put them according to different circumstances because all the time is not the same today is good then tomorrow is bad, so tell your children that today you have to  The facilities you are getting may not be available tomorrow, so learn to put yourself according to the circumstances.

 23. Motivate children for extracurricular activities and sports

 It is the duty and responsibility of every parent to motivate their children for extracurricular activities and sports activities both at home and outside the home.  It happens

1. qualities of being a spokesperson
2. Development of qualities of sportsman ship
3. the quality of being a social animal
4. The quality of developing a spirit of cooperation
5. develop friend-making skills

 24. Make the children do the same thing over and over again, which they are afraid to do

 It has often been seen that there is a tendency in children that if they are doing some work there, and they are afraid to do that work, then children do not do that work.  The result of which is that the self development and self esteem decreases in them.  Therefore, it is the duty of every parent to look at their children and understand that if their child is afraid to do any work, then ask the child what are you afraid of doing this work.  After knowing the reasons behind the fear, support the children and get them to do the same task again, as a result of which the child will again do that task without fear, which will result in increasing confidence in the child.

Motivational Confidence Quotes To Boost your children Self Confidence and Self-Esteem

• With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world

• If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. With confidence, you have won even before you have started

• Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye

• One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation

• Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.

• Confidence is when you believe in yourself and your abilities, arrogance is when you think you are better than others and act accordingly

• Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already had the confidence you desire to have

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Rajendra thakur